Julia Cameron  - Quotes

 We need to bridge our sense of loneliness and disconnection with a sense of community and continuity even if we must manufacture it from our time on the Web and our use of calling cards to connect long distance. We must  



Rainer Maria Rilke  - Quotes

 Therefore, dear Sir, love your solitude and try to sing out with the pain it causes you. For those who are near you are far away... and this shows that the space around you is beginning to grow vast.... be happy about your growth, in which of course you can't take anyone with you, and be gentle with those who stay behind; be confident and calm in front of them and don't torment them with your doubts and don't frighten them with your faith or joy, which they wouldn't be able to comprehend. Seek out some simple and true feeling of what you have in common with them, which doesn't necessarily have to alter when you yourself change again and again; when you see them, love life in a form that is not your own and be indulgent toward those who are growing old, who are afraid of the aloneness that you trust. 

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Henrik Ibsen  - Quotes

 What is the difference in being alone with another and being alone by one's self? 

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Margaret Atwood  - Quotes

 How could I have been so ignorant? she thinks. So stupid, so unseeing, so given over to carelessness. But without such ignorance, such carelessness, how could we live? If you knew what was going to happen, if you knew everything that was going to happen next -- if you knew in advance the consequences of your own actions -- you'd be doomed. You'd be as ruined as God. You'd be a stone. You'd never eat or drink or laugh or get out of bed in the morning. You'd never love anyone, ever again. You'd never dare to. 

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David Lynch  - Quotes

 I hate slick and pretty things. I prefer mistakes and accidents. Which is why I like things like cuts and bruises - they're like little flowers. I've always said that if you have a name for something, like 'cut' or 'bruise,' people will automatically be disturbed by it. But when you see the same thing in nature, and you don't know what it is, it can be very beautiful. 

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Joss Whedon  - Quotes

 Loneliness leads to nothing good, only detachment. And sometimes the people who most need to reach out are the people least capable of it. 

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White Oleander  - Quotes

 Ingrid:
Don't attach yourself to anyone who shows you the least bit of attention because you're lonely. Loneliness is the human condition. No one is ever going to fill that space. The best you can do is know yourself... know what you want.
 

George Gordon Byron  - Quotes

 In solitude, where we are least alone.  

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Charles Bukowski  - Quotes

 there is a loneliness in this world so great that you can see it in the slow movement of the hands of a clock 

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Mahatma Gandhi  - Quotes

 I will not let anyone walk through my mind with their dirty feet. 

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William Shakespeare  - Quotes

 I hold the world but as the world, Gratiano,-A stage, where every man must play a part;And mine a sad one. 

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Edgar Allan Poe  - Quotes

 I have absolutely no pleasure in the stimulants in which I sometimes so madly indulge. It has not been in the pursuit of pleasure that I have periled life and reputation and reason. It has been the desperate attempt to escape from torturing memories, from a sense of insupportable loneliness and a dread of some strange impending doom. 

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Marilynne Robinson  - Quotes

 Because, once alone, it is impossible to believe that one could ever have been otherwise. Loneliness is an absolute discovery. 

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Nikolai Gogol  - Quotes

 Two turtle doves will show thee

Where my cold ashes lie

And sadly murmuring tell thee

How in tears I did die
 

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Charlaine Harris  - Quotes

 Hoyt was by himself right under one of the portable lights rigged up for the occasion. He had his hands thrust in his pockets, and he looked more serious than I 

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Haruki Murakami  - Quotes

 But even so, every now and then I would feel a violent stab of loneliness. The very water I drink, the very air I breathe, would feel like long, sharp needles. The pages of a book in my hands would take on the threatening metallic gleam of razor blades. I could hear the roots of loneliness creeping through me when the world was hushed at four o'clock in the morning. 

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Rainer Maria Rilke  - Quotes

 .... there is only one solitude, and it is vast, heavy, difficult to bear, and almost everyone has hours when he would gladly exchange it for any kind of sociability, however trivial or cheap, for the tiniest outward agreement with the first person who comes along.... 

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Eda LeShan  - Quotes

 When we cannot bear to be alone, it means we do not properly value the only companion we will have from birth to death - ourselves. 

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Beautiful Girls  - Quotes

 Marty:
If I'm not mistaken, you've come back here to the house of loneliness and tears, to Daddy Downer and Brother Bummer, to come to some sort of decision about life, a life decision if you will.
 

Stephen King  - Quotes

 Even the company of the mad was better than the company of the dead. 

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Frank Herbert  - Quotes

 In 1054, the patriarch of Constantinople and the pope excommunicated each other.

That was the end of holiness for both churches.
 

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Natural Born Killers  - Quotes

 Mickey:
Even ugliness looks beautiful next to you.
 

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Douglas Coupland  - Quotes

 Remember: the time you feel lonely is the time you most need to be by yourself. Life's cruelest irony. 

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Miranda July  - Quotes

 Are you angry? Punch a pillow. Was it satisfying? Not hardly. These days people are too angry for punching. What you might try is stabbing. Take an old pillow and lay it on the front lawn. Stab it with a big pointy knife. Again and again and again. Stab hard enough for the point of the knife to go into the ground. Stab until the pillow is gone and you are just stabbing the earth again and again, as if you want to kill it for continuing to spin, as if you are getting revenge for having to live on this planet day after day, alone. 

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Joseph Conrad  - Quotes

 We live as we dream--alone.... 

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Douglas Adams  - Quotes

 I love deadlines. I like the whooshing sound they make as they fly by. 

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Stephen King  - Quotes

 Lying in the bed that had once held two, Lisey thought alone never felt more lonely than when you woke up and discovered you still had the house to yourself. That you and the mice in the walls were the only ones still breathing. 

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Rainer Maria Rilke  - Quotes

 I want to be with those who know secret things or else alone. 

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Haruki Murakami  - Quotes

 Like you're riding a train at night across some vast plain, and you

catch a glimpse of a tiny light in a window of a farmhouse. In an

instant it's sucked back into the darkness behind and vanishes. But

if you close your eyes, that point of light stays with you, just

barely for a few moments.
 

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Haruki Murakami  - Quotes

 Nobody likes being alone that much. I don't go out of my way to make friends, that's all. It just leads to disappointment.  

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Rainer Maria Rilke  - Quotes

 Why should you want to give up a child's wise not-understanding in exchange for defensiveness and scorn, since not-understanding is, after all, a way of being alone, whereas defensiveness and scorn are a participation in precisely what, by these means, you want to separate yourself from. 

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Yukio Mishima  - Quotes

 An ugliness unfurled in the moonlight and soft shadow and suffused the whole world. If I were an amoeba, he thought, with an infinitesimal body, I could defeat ugliness. A man isn 

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Queen of the Damned  - Quotes

 Lestat:
[voice over] Many times since, I have called to Marius. I howled into the night in loneliness and pain. But there was no answer, just the endless procession of days, months, years... My teacher left me to my darkest lesson, that in the end, we are alone.
 

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Cormac McCarthy  - Quotes

 On this road there are no godspoke men. They are gone and I am left and they have taken with them the world. 

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Leonardo da Vinci  - Quotes

 If you are alone you belong entirely to yourself... If you are accompanied by even one companion you belong only half to yourself, or even less, in proportion to the thoughtlessness of his conduct; and if you have more than one companion you will fall more deeply into the same plight. 

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Christopher Hitchens  - Quotes

 Every November of my boyhood, we put on red poppies and attended highly patriotic services in remembrance of those who had 'given' their lives. But on what assurance did we know that these gifts had really been made? Only the survivors 

Erma Bombeck  - Quotes

 Cleanliness is not next to godliness. It isn't even in the same neighborhood. No one has ever gotten a religious experience out of removing burned-on cheese from the grill of the toaster oven. 

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Vladimir Nabokov  - Quotes

 Listen: I am ideally happy. My happiness is a kind of challenge. As I wander along the streets and the squares and the paths by the canal, absently sensing the lips of dampness through my worn soles, I carry proudly my ineffable happiness. The centuries will roll by, and schoolboys will yawn over the history of our upheavals; everything will pass, but my happiness , dear, my happiness will remain,in the moist reflection of a street lamp, in the cautious bend of stone steps that descend into the canal's black waters, in the smiles of a dancing couple, in everything with which God so generously surrounds human loneliness. 

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Rainer Maria Rilke  - Quotes

 The only sadnesses that are dangerous and unhealthy are the ones that we carry around in public in order to drown them out with the noise; like diseases that are treated superficially and foolishly, they just withdraw and after a short interval break out again all the more terribly; and gather inside us and are life, are life that is unlived, rejected, lost, life that we can die of.

 

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Joseph Conrad  - Quotes

 . . . No, it is impossible; it is impossible to convey the life-sensation of any given epoch of one 

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Christopher Hitchens  - Quotes

 Which natural gift would you most like to possess? The ability to master other languages (which would have hugely enhanced the scope of these answers).

How would you like to die? Fully conscious, and either fighting or reciting (or fooling around).

What do you most dislike about your appearance? The way in which it makes former admirers search for neutral words.
 

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Gormenghast  - Quotes

 Steerpike:
I understand!
Lady Fuchsia:
No, you don't!
Steerpike:
If I understand anything, I understand anger. And that's because I understand what it feels like to be rejected. And don't think I don't understand loneliness too.
Lady Fuchsia:
I'm sorry! [throws herself in his arms before soon after jerking away from him again]
Lady Fuchsia:
No! No, this is horrible! YOU'RE horrible! You leave me alone! Never come near me! [runs off]
Steerpike:
[to himself] I can wait...
 

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David Foster Wallace  - Quotes

 Fiction is one of the few experiences where loneliness can be both confronted and relieved. Drugs, movies where stuff blows up, loud parties -- all these chase away loneliness by making me forget my name's Dave and I live in a one-by-one box of bone no other party can penetrate or know. Fiction, poetry, music, really deep serious sex, and, in various ways, religion -- these are the places (for me) where loneliness is countenanced, stared down, transfigured, treated. 

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Ralph Waldo Emerson  - Quotes

 Go oft to the house of thy friend, for weeds choke the unused path.



 

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Nicholas Sparks  - Quotes

 That initial anger she had felt turned to sadness, and now it had become something else, almost a dullness of sorts. Even though she was constantly in motion, it seemed as if nothing special ever happened to her anymore. Each day seemed exactly like the last, and she had trouble differentiating among them. 

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Anne Rice  - Quotes

 Oh to have you with me, to have you here, not to be alone, but to be with you, my beauty, you of all souls! You. 

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Poppy Z. Brite  - Quotes

 Some nights are made for torture, or reflection, or the savoring of loneliness. 

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Haruki Murakami  - Quotes

 Why do people have to be this lonely? What's the point of it all? Millions of people in this world, all of them yearning, looking to others to satisfy them, yet isolating themselves. Why? Was the earth put here just to nourish human loneliness? 

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Anne Rice  - Quotes

 One will hate you for taking his life, another will run to excesses that you scorn. A third will emerge mad and raving, another a monster you cannot control. One will be jealous of your superiority, another shut you out... And the veil will always come down between you Make a legion, you will be, always and forever alone! 

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Adrian Uter  - Quotes

 To be alone is to be different, to be different is to be alone. 

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Nina Malkin  - Quotes

 The best listeners listen between the lines. 

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Neal Stephenson  - Quotes

 Nothing is more important than that you see and love the beauty that is right in front of you, or else you will have no defense against the ugliness that will hem you in and come at you in so many ways. 

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F. Scott Fitzgerald  - Quotes

 I felt a haunting loneliness sometimes, and felt it in others--young clerks in the dusk, wasting the most poignant moments of night and life. 

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Jules Renard  - Quotes

 If you are afraid of being lonely, don't try to be right. 

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Peter Hessler  - Quotes

 The American appetite for loneliness impressed me, and there was something about this solitude that freed conversation. One night at a bar, I met a man, and within five minutes he explained that he had just been released from prison. Another drinker told me that his wife had passed away, and he had recently suffered a heart attack, and now he hoped that he would die within the year. I learned that there's no reliable small talk in America; at any moment a conversation can become personal. 

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Christopher Hitchens  - Quotes

 This is what you get when you found a political system on the family values of Henry VIII. At a point in the not-too-remote future, the stout heart of Queen Elizabeth II will cease to beat. At that precise moment, her firstborn son will become head of state, head of the armed forces, and head of the Church of England. In strict constitutional terms, this ought not to matter much. The English monarchy, as has been said, reigns but does not rule. From the aesthetic point of view it will matter a bit, because the prospect of a morose bat-eared and chinless man, prematurely aged, and with the most abysmal taste in royal consorts, is a distinctly lowering one. 

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Haruki Murakami  - Quotes

 And it came to me then. That we were wonderful traveling companions

but in the end no more than lonely lumps of metal in their own

separate orbits. From far off they look like beautiful shooting

stars, but in reality they're nothing more than prisons, where each of

us is locked up alone, going nowhere. When the orbits of these two

satellites of ours happened to cross paths, we could be together.

Maybe even open our hearts to each other. But that was only for the

briefest moment. In the next instant we'd be in absolute solitude.

Until we burned up and became nothing.
 

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Augusten Burroughs  - Quotes

 I'm lonely. And I'm lonely in some horribly deep way and for a flash of an instant, I can see just how lonely, and how deep this feeling runs. And it scares the shit out of me to be this lonely because it seems catastrophic. 

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Rick Riordan  - Quotes

 Deadlines just aren't real to me until I'm staring one in the face. 

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Tao Lin  - Quotes

 There was an enjoyment to being alive, he felt, that because of an underlying meaninglessness - like how a person alone for too long cannot feel comfortable when with others; cannot neglect that underlying the feeling of belongingness is the certainty, really, of loneliness, and nothingness, and so experiences life in that hurried, worthless way one experiences a mistake - he could no longer get at. 

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