Helvy Tiana Rosa  - Quotes

 Penderitaan yang sesungguhnya adalah ketika kamu kehilangan kepercayaan diri dan harapan. Ketika Allah tak ada dalam tujuan hidupmu  

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William Shakespeare  - Quotes

 There's a few things I've learned in life: always throw salt over your left shoulder, keep rosemary by your garden gate, plant lavender for good luck, and fall in love whenever you can 

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Pramoedya Ananta Toer  - Quotes

 Revolusi Perancis, mendudukkan harga manusia pada tempatnya yang tepat. Dengan hanya memandang manusia pada satu sisi, sisi penderitaan semata, orang akan kehilangan sisinya yang lain. Dari sisi penderitaan saja, yang datang pada kita hanya dendam, dendam semata...



(Anak Semua Bangsa, h. 204)

 

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Dolly Parton  - Quotes

 It's a good thing I was born a girl, otherwise I'd be a drag queen.  

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Pramoedya Ananta Toer  - Quotes

 Selama penderitaan datang dari manusia, dia bukan bencana alam, dia pun pasti bisa dilawan oleh manusia.



(Anak Semua Bangsa, h. 204)
 

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Laura Fraser  - Quotes

 The fundamental condition of man is his verticality. 

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Pramoedya Ananta Toer  - Quotes

 Kehidupan ini seimbang, Tuan. Barangsiapa hanya memandang pada keceriannya saja, dia orang gila. Barangsiapa memandang pada penderitaannya saja, dia sakit.



(Anak Semua Bangsa, h. 199)
 

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Titon Rahmawan  - Quotes

 Penderitaanku yang paling utama adalah kemelekatanku pada dunia ini. Namun bukan dunia yang menjadi sumber penderitaan itu melainkan kelemahan jiwaku sendiri. 

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Orson Scott Card  - Quotes

 Valentine went back to class without answering. That night Demosthenes published a scathing denunciation of the population limitation laws. People should be allowed to have as many children as they like, and the surplus population should be sent to other worlds, to spread mankind so far across the galaxy that no danger, no invasion could ever threaten the human race with annihilation.  

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Jeanette Winterson  - Quotes

 As far as I was concerned men were something you had around the place, not particularly interesting, but quite harmless. I had never shown the slightest feeling for them, and apart from my never wearing a skirt, saw nothing else in common between us. 

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Brennan Manning  - Quotes

 Our identity rests in God's relentless tenderness for us revealed in Jesus Christ. 

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Patton Oswalt  - Quotes

 I had a romance novel inside me, but I paid three sailors to beat it out of me with steel pipes. 

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What Dreams May Come  - Quotes

 Chris Nielsen:
[delivering a eulogy for Ian] There's a man Ian never got to know: the man he was growing up to be. He's a good looking clear-eyed young fellow, about 25. I can see him. He's the type of guy that men want to be around, because he has integrity, you know? He has character. You can't fake that. And he's a guy women want to be around too, because there's a tenderness in him. Respect, and loyalty, and courage, and women respond to that. Makes him a terrific husband, this guy. I see him as a father. That's where he really shines. I see him when he looks into his kid's eyes. That kid knows that his dad really, really sees him. He sees who he is. And then that child knows that he's an amazing person. He's quite a guy, that he'll never get to meet.
 

Brennan Manning  - Quotes

 [The] insistence on the absolutely indiscriminate nature of compassion within the Kingdom is the dominant perspective of almost all of Jesus' teaching.

What is indiscriminate compassion? 'Take a look at a rose. Is is possible for the rose to say,
 

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Otto Weininger  - Quotes

 There are transitional forms between the metals and non-metals; between chemical combinations and simple mixtures, between animals and plants, between phanerogams and cryptogams, and between mammals and birds [...]. The improbability may henceforth be taken for granted of finding in Nature a sharp cleavage between all that is masculine on the one side and all that is feminine on the other; or that any living being is so simple in this respect that it can be put wholly on one side, or wholly on the other, of the line. 

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Orson Scott Card  - Quotes

 [That wall] might be breached sometime in the future, but for now the only real conversation between them was the roots that had already grown low and deep, under the wall, where they could not be broken.



The most terrible thing, though, was the fear that the wall could never be breached, that in his heart Alai was glad of the separation, and was ready to be Ender's enemy. For now that they could not be together, they must be infinitely apart, and what had been sure and unshakable was now fragile and insubstantial; from the moment we are not together, Alai is a stranger, for he has a life now that will be no part of mine, and that means that when I see him we will not know each other.
 

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William Faulkner  - Quotes

 You men,' she says. 'You durn men. 

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Andrew Shue  - Quotes

 Mom, 

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Orson Scott Card  - Quotes

 Ender understood more than she said. Manipulation of gravity was one thing; deception by the officers was another; but the most important message was this: the adults are the enemy, not the other armies. They do not tell us the truth. 

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May Sarton  - Quotes

 If art is not to be life-enhancing, what is it to be? Half the world is feminine--why is there resentment at a female-oriented art? Nobody asks The Tale of Genji to be masculine! Women certainly learn a lot from books oriented toward a masculine world. Why is not the reverse also true? Or are men really so afraid of women's creativity (because they are not themselves at the center of creation, cannot bear children) that a woman writer of genius evokes murderous rage, must be brushed aside with a sneer as 'irrelevant'? 

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Charles Dickens  - Quotes

 As she stooped over him, her tears fell upon his forehead.

The boy stirred, and smiled in his sleep, as though these marks of pity and compassion had awakened some pleasant dream of a love and affection he had never known; as a strain of gentle music, or the rippling of water in a silent place, or the odour of a flower, or even the mention of a familiar word, will sometimes call up sudden dim remembrances of scenes that never were, in this life; which vanish like a breath; and which some brief memory of a happier existence, long gone by, would seem to have awakened, for no voluntary exertion of the mind can ever recall them.
 

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Jeffrey Eugenides  - Quotes

 The Statue of Liberty's gender changed nothing. It was the same here as anywhere: men and their wars. 

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Germaine Greer  - Quotes

 The most cursory examination of even the most progressive organs of information reveals a curious inability to recognize women as newsmakers, unless they are young or married to a head of state or naked or pregnant by some triumph of technology or perpetrators or victims of some hideous crime or any combiniation of the above. Women's issues are often disguised as people issues, unless they are relegated to the women's pages which amazingly still suvive. Senior figures are all male; even the few women who are deemed worthy of obituaries are shown in images from their youth, as if the last fourty years of their lives have been without achievement of any kind. If you analyse the by-lines in your morning paper, you will see that the senior editorial staff are all older men, supported by a rabble of junior females, the infinitely replacesable 'hackettes'. 

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Elizabeth Smart  - Quotes

 Once upon a time there was a woman who was just like all women. And she married a man who was just like all men. And they had some children who were just like all children. And it rained all day.



The woman had to skewer the hole in the kitchen sink, when it was blocked up.



The man went to the pub every Friday, Saturday, and Sunday. The other nights he mended his broken bicycle, did the pool coupons, and longed for money and power.



The woman read love stories and longed for things to be different.



The children fought and yelled and played and had scabs on their knees.



In the end they all died.
 

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Virginia Woolf  - Quotes

 All this pitting of sex against sex, of quality against quality; all this claiming of superiority and imputing of inferiority, belong to the private-school stage of human existence where there are 'sides,' and it is necessary for one side to beat another side, and of the utmost importance to walk up to a platform and receive from the hands of the Headmaster himself a highly ornamental pot. 

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Naomi Wolf  - Quotes

 Some women have become far too proscriptive of other women's pleasures and private arrangements, and the definition of feminism has become ideologically overloaded. 

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Henry Miller  - Quotes

 No man is great enough or wise enough for any of us to surrender our destiny to. The only way in which anyone can lead us is to restore to us the belief in our own guidance. 

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George Washington Carver  - Quotes

 How far you go in life depends on your being

tender with the young, compassionate with the aged,

sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the

weak and strong. Because someday in your life you will

have been all of these.
 

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Dionne Warwick  - Quotes

 Man will never understand woman and vice versa. We are oil and water. An equal level can never be maintained, as one will always excel where the other doesn't, and that breeds resentment. 

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Alice Hoffman  - Quotes

 There are some things, after all, that Sally Owens knows for certain: Always throw spilled salt over your left shoulder. Keep rosemary by your garden gate. Add pepper to your mashed potatoes. Plant roses and lavender for luck. Fall in love whenever you can. 

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Tove Jansson  - Quotes

 All men have parties and are pals who never let each other down. A pal can say terrible things which are forgotten the next day. A pal never forgives, he just forgets, and a woman forgives but never forgets. That's how it is. That's why women aren't allowed to have parties. Being forgiven is very unpleasant. 

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Brennan Manning  - Quotes

 Live in the wisdom of accepted tenderness. Tenderness awakens within the security of knowing we are thoroughly and sincerely liked by someone...

Scripture suggests that the essence of the divine nature is compassion and that the heart of God is defined by tenderness.
 

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Michael Cunningham  - Quotes

 I was not ladylike, nor was I manly. I was something else altogether. There were so many different ways to be beautiful. 

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Neal Stephenson  - Quotes

 Supposing that originally there was nothing but one creator, how could ordinary binary sexual relations come into being? 

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Stanley Baldwin  - Quotes

 I would rather trust a woman's instinct than a man's reason. 

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Natalie Angier  - Quotes

 Perhaps eggs are like neurons, which also are not replenished in adulthood: they know too much. Eggs must plan the party. Sperm need only to show up- wearing top hat and tails, of course.  

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James Howe  - Quotes

 I hated that the soldier doll had my name. I mean, please. I didn't play with him much. He was another Christmas present from my clueless grandparents. One time when they were visiting, my grandpa asked me if G.I. Joe had been in any wars lately. I said,  

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Randall Munroe  - Quotes

 The role of gender in society is the most complicated thing I 

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Wallace Stegner  - Quotes

 Ruth believes that boys are not found around stables because what they like is taking things apart and putting them together again, and for this purpose horses are not so satisfactory as cars, motorcycles, and even bicycles, while girls adore horses because they are biological and have functions. 

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Calpernia Addams  - Quotes

 

Some days when my face was broken out just a little too much for me to take, and I looked in despair at the way my fashionless clothes hung on my thin body, my heart just couldn't take another noticeless passage through my school day and I went to agonize alone in the park.
 

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Calpernia Addams  - Quotes

 Some days when my face was broken out just a little too much for me to take, and I looked in despair at the way my fashionless clothes hung on my thin body, my heart just couldn't take another noticeless passage through my school day and I went to agonize alone in the park. 

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Catherine Ryan Hyde  - Quotes

 If you want to see a man come to his senses, try something like, Do you happen to carry a rubber in your wallet? Did I mention I'm not on the pill? 

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Norah Vincent  - Quotes

 There is a time in a boy 

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Orson Scott Card  - Quotes

 I love you Ender. More than ever. No matter what you decide. 

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Virginia Woolf  - Quotes

 Different though the sexes are, they inter-mix. In every human being a vacillation from one sex to the other takes place, and often it is only the clothes that keep the male or female likeness, while underneath the sex is the very opposite of what it is above.  

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Orson Scott Card  - Quotes

 Remember, the enemy's gate is down. 

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Alain Prost  - Quotes

 Always say  

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Thomas Merton  - Quotes

 Surrender your own poverty and acknowledge your nothingness to the Lord. Whether you understand it or not, God loves you, is present in you, lives in you, dwells in you, calls you, saves you and offers you an understanding and compassion which are like nothing you have ever found in a book or heard in a sermon. 

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Adam Rex  - Quotes

 Woah,' I said, blocking the doorway. 'You can't come in here. This is the girls' room.'

Even as it came out of my mouth, I knew it sounded dumb. Dumb, I thought and maybe even wrong.

You...are a boy, aren't you?' I asked. 'I mean, don't take that the wrong way or anything -'

J.Lo is a boy, yes.' I let that go.

So...you Boov have boys and girls...just like us?'

Of course,' said J.Lo. 'Do not be ridicumlous.'

I smiled a wan little smile. 'Sorry.'

The Boov have seven magnificent genders. There is boy, girl, girlboy, boygirl, boyboy, boyboygirl, and boyboyboyboy.'

I had absolutely no response to this.
 

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Orson Scott Card  - Quotes

 Well, I'm your man. I'm the bloody bastard you wanted when you had me spawned. I'm your tool, and what difference does it make if I hate the part of me that you most need? What difference does it make that when the little serpents killed me in the game, I agreed with them, and was glad. 

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Jean Kerr  - Quotes

 Women speak because they wish to speak, whereas a man speaks only when driven to speak by something outside himself-like, for instance, he can't find any clean socks. 

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Abigail Adams  - Quotes

 ...remember the ladies, and be more generous and favorable to them than your ancestors. Do not put such unlimited power into the hands of the Husbands. Remember all Men would be tyrants if they could. If particular care and attention is not paid to the Ladies we are determined to foment a Rebellion, and will not hold ourselves bound by any Laws in which we have no voice, or Representation. 

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Rick Warren  - Quotes

 You cannot fulfil God's purposes for your life while focusing on your own plans.  

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A.W. Tozer  - Quotes

 The reason why many are still troubled, still seeking, still making little forward progress is because they haven't yet come to the end of themselves. We're still trying to give orders, and interfering with God's work within us.  

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Calpernia Addams  - Quotes

 I could never get back the years of being different. I would never move comfortably through the world as my peers did. Some things would always be a second language on my tongue, heavily accented, awkward. 

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David Sedaris  - Quotes

 I find it ridiculous to assign a gender to an inanimate object incapable of disrobing and making an occasional fool of itself. 

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C.S. Lewis  - Quotes

 Now we cannot...discover our failure to keep God's law except by trying our very hardest (and then failing). Unless we really try, whatever we say there will always be at the back of our minds the idea that if we try harder next time we shall succeed in being completely good. Thus, in one sense, the road back to God is a road of moral effort, of trying harder and harder. But in another sense it is not trying that is ever going tobring us home. All this trying leads up to the vital moment at which you turn to God and say,  

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Lisa Kleypas  - Quotes

 Kev wasn't certain if he was surrendering to Win or to his own passion for her. Only that there was no more holding back. He would take her. And he would give her everything he had, every part of his soul, even the broken pieces. 

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Orson Scott Card  - Quotes

 Whatever your gravity is when you get to the door, remember -- the enemy's gate it down. If you step through your own door like you're out for a stroll, you're a big target and you deserve to get hit. With more than a flasher. 

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Richard Ford  - Quotes

 Then, what's the matter?' I wonder, in fact, how many times I have said that or something equal to it to a woman passing palely through my life. What're you thinking? What's made you so quiet? You seem suddenly different. What's the matter? Love me is what this means, of course. Or at least, second best: surrender. Or at the very least, take some time regaling me with why you won't, and maybe by the end you will. 

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